So your nervous system developed a survival strategy:

Abandon yourself before others abandon you.

Make yourself small. Be the "good" one. Don't rock the boat.
Read the room. Manage everyone's emotions except your own.
Over-give. Perform. Try harder. Do more.

It worked. You survived.

But that strategy is still running (decades later) even when you're no longer in danger.

Your body is still trying to keep you safe in a way that no longer serves you.

And now?

You're doing the same thing in your relationships:

Trying to make your avoidant partner feel safe, hoping that if you just manage their emotions well enough, they'll finally choose you.

Performing and over-giving, hoping that if you just do enough, you'll finally be enough.

Seeking safety externally because you never learned how to build it within.

But here's what therapy and all those books didn't tell you:

You can't heal your abandonment wound by preventing someone else from abandoning you.

You can't earn externally what you need to build internally.

And you can't think your way out of a body-based problem.

The wound isn't in your mind. It's frozen in your nervous system.

And until you meet that frozen part of you, not with understanding, but with presence, nothing will change.

THIS IS WHERE REAL HEALING BEGINS

I'm Blake Goldsmith, and I've invested $200,000 and over a decade into healing my own anxious attachment.

I've been the nice guy who got walked over.
The people-pleaser who abandoned himself to be loved.
The one who swung to the other extreme and closed his heart completely.

I tried Therapy. Coaches. Courses. Meditation. Plant medicine (over 50 ayahuasca ceremonies). Men's work. Retreats.

I worked with some of the best healers in the world.

Some of it helped. Some of it didn't.

The real shift happened when I stopped trying to understand my patterns and started meeting them in my body.

Not thinking about the wound. Feeling it.
Not explaining the freeze. Meeting it.
Not analyzing the abandonment. Reclaiming it.

That's when everything changed.

And now, I hold this space for others.

I've guided 50+ clients through the same journey, people who came to me after everything else failed.

I know how to read the parts of you that you hide from the world.

I know how to hold you through your breaking points without abandoning you.

I know the terrain because I've lived inside it too.

When you work with me, you're not just getting information. You're getting a guide who has walked this path, felt this pain, and found the way through.

Someone who won't let you abandon yourself in the process.

Someone who knows how to lead you back to the parts you left behind.

My clients don't just understand their attachment wounds anymore.

They're free from them.  And that's what I'm here to support you do.

INTRODUCING:

RETURNING TO WHOLENESS

This isn't another course about attachment theory.

This is root-level healing for people who are done understanding and ready to transform.

Returning to Wholeness is a 12-week somatic healing program that goes beyond the mind and into the body, where your patterns are actually frozen.

Through 5 core elements (Presence, Breath, Movement, Sound, and Integration), you'll:

✓ Meet the frozen parts of yourself that have been running your relationships since childhood

✓ Release the patterns that keep you abandoning yourself, chasing unavailable people, and feeling unsafe in your own skin

✓ Reclaim the parts you left behind - the needs, the truth, the self-worth that got buried to keep you safe

✓ Reparent your inner child so they finally feel seen, heard, and safe

✓ Rewire your nervous system to operate from groundedness instead of survival

This isn't therapy.

This isn't life coaching.

This is emotional surgery.

We're going to the root.

And we're healing this once and for all.

WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE OVER 12 WEEKS

PHASE 1: AWARENESS & SHADOW (WEEKS 1-3)

"You can't heal what you can't see"

What happens: You'll bring your unconscious patterns into the light. We uncover the root beliefs driving your anxious attachment, meet the shadow parts you've been hiding, and understand why your nervous system keeps running the same program even when you consciously know better.

The shift: From unconscious reactivity to conscious awareness. You'll finally see the patterns clearly and understand where they're stored in your body.

Breakthrough moment: "I finally understand why nothing else worked. I can feel where I've been holding this."

PHASE 2: FOUNDATION BUILDING (WEEKS 4-6)

"Building the internal safety you never had"

What happens: You'll cultivate nervous system regulation and build your foundation of inner safety. We work with your masculine and feminine energies, establish healthy boundaries, and teach your body what safety actually feels like, from the inside out.

The shift: From seeking external validation to generating internal safety. You'll learn to speak your truth without abandoning yourself.

Breakthrough moment: "I spoke my truth even though I was scared and I didn't abandon myself."

PHASE 3: INNER CHILD RECLAMATION (WEEKS 7-9)

"Going back to bring yourself forward"

What happens: The deepest healing work begins. You'll rescue your inner child, reparent the abandoned parts of yourself, and reconnect with your authentic desires and purpose. This is where you align with your truth and step into the training field, practicing your new way of being in real life.

The shift: From abandoning yourself to becoming your own safe parent. Your inner child finally feels seen, heard, and protected.

Breakthrough moment: "I finally feel safe inside myself. My inner child isn't scared anymore."

PHASE 4: INTEGRATION & EMBODIMENT (WEEKS 10-12)

"Living from your reclaimed self"

What happens: You integrate everything and step fully into your vision. We clarify your path forward, anchor your transformation into daily life, and ensure this becomes your new normal, not just a temporary shift. You'll embody deep inner peace and live from your truth.

The shift: From healing mode to empowered living. You move through life from wholeness, naturally attracting healthy relationships.

Breakthrough moment: "I'm not the same person who started this program."

CORE PROGRAM:

✓ 12 weeks of structured video content - Teaching, storytelling, and guided practices that walk you through each phase of transformation

✓ Weekly assignments for transformation and integration - The deep work that creates lasting change (shadow work, inner child healing, embodiment practices, and more)

✓ Guided somatic audio library - Recordings for inner child rescue, sitting with discomfort, grieving work, breathwork, and nervous system regulation

✓ Limiting beliefs toolkit - Frameworks and exercises to identify, challenge, and rewire beliefs at the root

✓ Emergency regulation toolkit - Breathwork, grounding, and activation practices for when you're triggered or overwhelmed

COMMUNITY & SUPPORT:

✓ Private community access - Connect with others on the same healing journey

✓ Monthly live Q&A calls - Ongoing guidance, support, and real-time coaching

✓ Lifetime access - All content, recordings, and future program updates

PROGRAM START DATE

Returning to Wholeness begins Monday, January 12th, 2025.

When you enroll during the early bird pre-sale (Dec 9-16), you'll secure your founding member spot at the discounted price.

Everything unlocks January 12th, and we begin the 12-week journey together.

I can't guarantee you'll never feel anxious again. Anyone who promises that is lying.

But I can guarantee this:

If you complete the program with honesty and commitment.

if you show up, do the assignments, and engage with the process, but don't experience a meaningful shift in how you feel inside your own body, I'll refund your core program investment.

This work is real. When you meet yourself in the body, change happens.

Your nervous system softens. Your patterns loosen. Your inner world becomes steadier.

If you do the work and genuinely don't feel any of that, you shouldn't pay for it.

To request a refund, simply show me your completed work (assignments, reflections, participation), and I'll process it within 7 days.

*1-on-1 coaching sessions are non-refundable, as that time cannot be reclaimed.

You've been running from this wound your whole life.

Trying to be good enough. Nice enough. Perfect enough.

Hoping that if you just do it right, you won't be abandoned.

But the abandonment already happened.

In childhood. When you learned that your needs didn't matter. When you became responsible for everyone else's emotions. When you had to hide your truth to stay safe.

That little version of you? They're still there. Still frozen. Still waiting for you to come back.

You can keep running from them.

Or you can finally turn around, go back, and reclaim them.

This is your invitation.

Not to fix yourself. Not to become someone different.

But to finally come home to the parts of you that were left behind.

To live in wholeness. To stop abandoning yourself. To finally feel safe inside your own body.

This is an investment in your healing. Your growth. Your capacity to love and be loved from a place of wholeness, not desperation.

The wound won't heal itself. The pattern won't break on its own.

But you can choose differently. Today.

CLIENT TRANSFORMATIONS