WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE

Abandon yourself before others abandon you.

Make yourself small. Be the "good" one. Don't rock the boat.
Read the room. Manage everyone's emotions except your own.
Over-give. Perform. Try harder. Do more.

It worked. You survived.

But that strategy is still running (decades later) even when you're no longer in danger.

 AND NOW YOU'RE DOING THE SAME THING:  

✓ Trying to make your partner feel safe (instead of yourself)  

✓ Performing and over-giving (hoping it'll make you enough)  

✓ Abandoning yourself to keep them close  

But here's what they didn't tell you:

You can't heal your abandonment wound by preventing someone else from abandoning you.

You can't earn externally what you need to build internally.  

Until you meet that frozen part in your body, not with understanding, but with presence, nothing will change

THIS IS WHERE REAL HEALING BEGINS

I'm Blake Goldsmith, and I've invested $200,000 and over a decade into healing my own anxious attachment.

I've been the nice guy who got walked over.
The people-pleaser who abandoned himself to be loved.
The one who swung to the other extreme and closed his heart completely.

I tried everything: Therapy. Coaches. Courses. Meditation. Plant medicine (over 50 ayahuasca ceremonies). Men's work. Retreats.

I worked with some of the best healers in the world.

Some of it helped. Some of it didn't.

The real shift happened when I stopped trying to understand my patterns and started meeting them in my body.

Not thinking about the wound. Feeling it.
Not explaining the freeze. Meeting it.
Not analyzing the abandonment. Reclaiming it.

That's when everything changed.

Now, I hold this space for others.

I've guided 50+ clients through the same journey, people who came to me after everything else failed.

When you work with me, you're not just getting information.

You're getting a guide who has walked this path, felt this pain, and found the way through.

Someone who knows how to hold you through your breaking points without abandoning you.

Someone who knows how to lead you back to the parts you left behind.

My clients don't just understand their attachment wounds anymore.

They're free, That's what's possible for you.

INTRODUCING:

RETURNING TO WHOLENESS

This isn't another course about attachment theory.

This is for people who are done understanding and ready to actually heal.

A 12-week somatic program that goes into your body, where the patterns are actually frozen.

WHAT YOU'LL DO:

✓ Meet the frozen parts of yourself that have been running your relationships since childhood

✓ Release the patterns that keep you abandoning yourself and chasing unavailable people

✓ Reclaim the parts you left behind; your needs, your truth, your self-worth

✓ Reparent your inner child so they finally feel seen, heard, and safe

✓ Rewire your nervous system to operate from groundedness instead of survival

This isn't therapy.

This isn't life coaching.

This is emotional surgery.

We're going to the root.

And we're healing this once and for all.

WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE OVER 12 WEEKS

PHASE 1: AWARENESS & SHADOW (WEEKS 1-3)

"You can't heal what you can't see"

We uncover the root beliefs driving your anxious attachment and meet the shadow parts you've been hiding from yourself.

You'll finally understand why your nervous system keeps running the same program, even when you consciously know better.

THE SHIFT: From unconscious reactivity → conscious awareness  You'll see the patterns clearly and feel where they're stored in your body.  

BREAKTHROUGH MOMENT: "I finally understand why nothing else worked. I can feel where I've been holding this."

PHASE 2: FOUNDATION BUILDING (WEEKS 4-6)

"Building the internal safety you never had"

You'll learn what safety actually feels like, from the inside out.  

We work with nervous system regulation, establish healthy boundaries, and teach your body to feel safe without needing someone else to make you feel that way.

THE SHIFT: From seeking external validation → generating internal safety  You'll speak your truth without abandoning yourself.

 BREAKTHROUGH MOMENT: "I said what I needed even though I was scared and I didn't abandon myself."

PHASE 3: INNER CHILD RECLAMATION (WEEKS 7-9)

"Going back to bring yourself forward"

The deepest healing happens here.

You'll meet your inner child, reparent the abandoned parts of yourself, and reconnect with the desires and truth you buried to stay safe.

This is where you become your own safe parent.

THE SHIFT: From abandoning yourself → protecting yourself  Your inner child finally feels seen, heard, and safe.  

BREAKTHROUGH MOMENT: "I finally feel safe inside myself. My inner child isn't scared anymore."

PHASE 4: INTEGRATION & EMBODIMENT (WEEKS 10-12)

"Living from your reclaimed self"

You anchor everything into your daily life.

We ensure this becomes your new normal, not just a temporary shift.

You'll move through life from wholeness, naturally attracting healthy relationships without trying.

THE SHIFT: From healing mode → empowered living  You're not managing anxiety anymore. You're free.

BREAKTHROUGH MOMENT: "I'm not the same person who started this program."

CORE PROGRAM:

✓ 12 weeks of structured video content - Teaching, storytelling, and guided practices that walk you through each phase ($2,500 value)

✓ Weekly assignments - That create lasting change:  Shadow work, inner child healing, embodiment practices, the deep work that actually transforms ($800 value)

✓ Guided somatic audio library - Inner child rescue, breathwork, nervous system regulation for when you need support in the moment ($500 value)

✓ Limiting beliefs toolkit - Identify, challenge, and rewire the beliefs keeping you stuck ($200 value)

✓ Emergency regulation toolkit - For when you're triggered, spiralling, or overwhelmed ($200 value)

COMMUNITY & SUPPORT:

✓ Private community access - Connect with others on the same journey ($300 value)

✓ Bi-weekly live group calls with Blake- Real-time guidance, Q&A, support, and coaching  during your active 12 weeks (6 calls) ($600 value)

✓ Lifetime access - All content, recordings, and future updates, yours forever ($1000 value)

WHEN IT STARTS:

Enrollment is open. Join anytime and start immediately.

You'll get instant access to all course materials, the community, and 6 bi-weekly live calls over your 12-week journey.

Calls run every two weeks on Wednesdays at 12pm EST

You've been running from this wound your whole life.

Trying to be good enough. Nice enough. Perfect enough.

Hoping that if you just do it right, you won't be abandoned.

But the abandonment already happened.

It happened in childhood.

When you learned your needs didn't matter.

When you became responsible for everyone else's emotions.

When you had to hide your truth to stay safe.

That little version of you?

They're still there. Still frozen. Still waiting for you to come back.

You have two choices:

Keep running from them. 

Keep abandoning yourself in relationships.  

Keep performing for love.

Keep hoping the next person will finally make you feel safe.

Or, turn around, go back.

And reclaim the parts you left behind.

This is your invitation.

Not to fix yourself.  Not to become someone different.  

But to finally come home.  

To the parts of you that were left behind.  

To the wholeness you had before it wasn't safe to be you.

WHAT'S POSSIBLE ON THE OTHER SIDE:  

You'll stop abandoning yourself to keep them close.  

You'll feel safe inside your own body.  

You'll love and be loved from wholeness, not desperation.

 You'll wake up without that knot of anxiety in your chest.

You'll trust that you're enough, exactly as you are.

THE WOUND WON'T HEAL ITSELF  

The pattern won't break on its own.  

Another year won't fix it.  

Another relationship won't fix it.  

Another therapy session talking about it won't fix it.  

But you can choose differently.  Today.

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